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Victims of Pedophilia as Adults |
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Why
is this so? If a child has unwanted sex, or any unwanted experience, he
should grow up fearing it, and protecting himself from it. Why then do
people with unwanted sex as children grow up having even more unwanted sex?
The report also found that "unwanted sexual activity during childhood
were associated with a significant amount of the variation in frequency of
unprotected sexual acts and number of partners." In other words, a
person who has unwanted sex as a child grows up to risk his life with sex,
and to have many partners; he does not protect himself from the multitude of
partners, even though he knows he may die for his lack of caution. The
research was done on 2,676 mostly Black and Latino men, and 25% of them
reported unwanted sexual activity as children. What is the significance of
this? The
paper did not go into the significance of this, but used the findings to
promote counseling for those at risk for HIV, especially since one fourth of
the men in these communities have unwanted sexual experiences as children.
There is, however, a very important lesson in this study. Pedophilia
destroys people. An adult who engages in unsafe sex knows that he, by having
multiple sexual partners and engaging in unsafe sex, may very well contract
terrible disease including HIV and AIDS. Nonetheless, he continues to do so.
This proves that pedophilia destroys the mental immune system, the natural
ability in all living things to seek protection from danger. Pedophilia even
seems to produce in a person the need for self-destruction, the need to
drink until function is impaired, and to have sex until the worst happens.
Indeed, multiple partner sex is not an act of love; in a way it is also an
act of self-negation. The
"safe schools" educators want all children to study homosexuality
so that those who are inclined to homosexuality will not commit suicide.
Will these same people now insist that children be taught about pedophilia?
Not only are the secular forces that work for homosexual education in public
schools not teaching the ills of pedophilia, the American Psychological
Association is fighting the perception that pedophilia is wrong. Of course,
there is a difference between unwanted sex and wanted pedophilia, but an
adult who befriends a child and wants sex creates an ambivalent situation in
the child, and it is hard to know how much sex is willing and how much is
not. Those of us who feel that adult men should not sexually penetrate
little children even if it is willing should surely do our part to make sure
that public schools teach about pedophilia. Another
aspect of this study is the terrible wounding and destruction that takes
place in a child's mind when confronted with unwanted sex. Many children
have unpleasant things happen to them in their youth, such as divorced
parents, dying parents, illnesses and accidents. Do all of these traumas
produce drinking and suicidal behavior in adults? We would like a study on
this, but intuitively, we would assume that sexuality is, for a child, a
special form of trauma, especially as it affects future sexuality. Who knows
what the impact of teaching a little child about sex is? Who knows what
damage we produce in a tender child's sexual modality because of a class on
fisting and penetration by another male. Those parents who allow their
children to be led to the slaughter by the gay lobby should be reminded of
this study, and that we will not really know the results of such education
for years. When we find out, it will be too late for many people. There
is uproar in the world over genetically altered soybeans and other staples,
even though there is no proof that it is unsafe. People instinctively fear
tampering with nature. When it comes to their children, however, they allow
the gays to teach perversities to growing children without fearing the
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D. Eidensohn's poem
"The Wall" won an International Poetry Contest. His poems appear in
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